Posted in Spending on November 7, 2026

Most of us go to work to make ends meet. But that’s not the be all and end all of what money should be used for. We also need to enjoy ourselves, whether that’s dinner out with friends, a short break or getting out of the house to enjoy your favourite hobby. The key is finding that balance between meeting your financial responsibilities and enjoying yourself, whilst keeping your budget on track. Smarter spending starts with understanding what matters most to you, then making considered choices about what you spend your money on.
With a little forward planning, you can get better value from everyday purchases and free up money for the things you enjoy. In this article, we’ll look at practical ways to do just that with a view of making what every money you have, stretch a whole lot further.
To start with, you should look back over what you’ve spent your money on over the course of the past month and work out which of those purchases still feel worthwhile now and which you can barely remember. Subscriptions always make this list, as you may be paying for a streaming subscription that you’ve not watched in the past month, or perhaps you bought some new clothes with the intention of wearing them but realised once you got home that you didn’t really like them at all.
Likewise, there will be things on your list that still bring a smile to your face today. It’s these purchases that should be your priority, and if you only focus on purchases of that nature, your money will stretch a lot further. And most importantly, before you plan what you will be spending your money on this coming month, make sure you’ve set enough aside for bills and other essentials. Then, look at what’s left and decide which of those enjoyable purchases you’d like to make room for.
The bigger purchases from the past month will always stick in your memory, but it’s the smaller costs that slip under the radar which we tend to disregard. For example, a coffee on the way to work, paying for priority delivery on an Uber Eats or a subscription that might cost so little that you’ve never bothered to cancel it. These charges may not seem like much on their own, but over the course of the month, they can seriously add up.
To begin addressing this, the easiest thing to do is to go through your bank statements and identify any regular/recurring costs that you haven’t given much thought to. You don’t need to go nuclear and get rid of every little purchase you make, but knowing where your money is going can help you decide what to cut to allow you more money towards what you truly enjoy doing.
Giving yourself a monthly spending budget that you religiously stick to can make the overall process of keeping track of your expenditure so much easier. So, once you have set aside the money for rent and essential bills, etc., and any planned amounts you intend to put into your rainy day fund, work out how much money you have left for doing the things you enjoy, plus meals out and other little treats.
To make your budget easier to manage, you should:
The budget you define should include 100% of the money you have available, and if you run out early, you can revisit your budget and work out what you need to do differently for the next week. Going over your budget one week is a great way of focussing your savings for the next.
We all love the spontaneous, unplanned day out. You wake up on a Saturday morning with no plans for the day and decide to have a well-deserved day out. And whilst this is a great use of time (and money), a day out can end up costing you significantly more than you expected once you consider the travel costs, food, entry fees to attractions and so on. Not to mention hotels, etc., if you want to stay over. So, before you head out, you should work out what you can comfortably afford to spend from your budget.
A little planning can help you keep your spending under control, so consider the following:
Knowing where your costs are likely to go will make it much easier to relax and take any money worries entirely off the table, so you are free to enjoy your day out with peace of mind.
Going out for dinner not only gives you a break from cooking (and cleaning), but it also gives you a chance to spend some quality time with your partner, catch up with friends or spend some much-needed time with your family. However, when it becomes a regular occurrence, the costs, as we all know, can soon add up. This is why planning your meals out in advance gives you time to put money aside and also something to look forward to.
Now, before choosing somewhere, you should definitely look at the menu prices online and decide if that particular location is suitable based on what you’re comfortable spending. Remember to allow for travel, drinks and tips/service charges, etc., too, as they can often end up costing more than the meal itself.
You might also want to consider the time of day you go out and perhaps try a lunchtime menu or sharing platter, as these are often better value than full-priced mains, assuming that suits the company you are with. The overall aim is to enjoy the occasion as much as possible without stretching your budget.
These days, the weekly “big shop” is one of our biggest outgoings. Food is ridiculously expensive at the best of times, and costs can quickly spiral if you don’t keep a close eye on what you’re spending. The key to saving money on the food shop is most definitely getting value for money, and getting good value on your food shop starts before you even leave the house. Firstly, check your fridge, freezer and cupboards and work out exactly what you have available already. Then write a shopping list for the things you actually need.
Once you are in the supermarket, a few of these simple habits can make the world of difference when it comes to checking out:
You should also leave room in your budget for buying what you enjoy too. It doesn’t all have to be plain, prepped, budget food. A cheaper shop is only good value if you actually eat what you buy.
It’s a well-known fact (and marketing strategy) that subscriptions are very easy to sign up for and even easier to forget about, especially if it’s not something you use day in, day out. A streaming service, for example, that you joined a few months back to watch a particular series or film that you’re still paying for. Or that Uber One subscription you took out because the deal for your ride was better at the time. It all adds up and is definitely one of the first things you should address if you’re serious about making your money go further.
To start, go through your bank statement and make a note of each subscription, the price and when the payment goes out. Then work through the points below to find out if you really need it.
Once you have a detailed list, you should have a clear picture of what you want to keep (the ones you use regularly) and what should be cancelled at your earliest convenience.
Some expenses don’t come up every month, but when they do, they can really throw off your budget if you don’t anticipate them. Birthdays are a prime example, but also your car’s tax/MOT, fixing or replacing a broken appliance or even an unexpected medical expense. They all come around when you need them most and will always leave you with less money in your pocket to spend on the things you enjoy.
Whilst some things can’t be planned for, there are a lot of one-off costs that can be. So look ahead over the next few weeks/months and make a note of any costs coming up that you know about. Then work out how much you can start putting towards them now, just like you do with annual events like Christmas or your summer holiday.
Keeping this money in a separate savings pot can help you avoid spending it accidentally, and it’s a nice surprise when one of these costs comes up and you have the money readily available to pay for it. You won’t be able to plan for everything, but even having a small amount stashed away can make any unexpected bill easier to manage.
Spending time with friends is extremely important, and whilst it can get costly, it doesn’t always need to be an expensive night out. If food, drink, taxis, etc., are taking up way too much of your budget, then it might be time to start making plans that cost less but still give everyone the chance to catch up. Here are some things to consider:
And most importantly, be upfront about what you can afford. Don’t be afraid to say that money is tight this month. Your friends might feel the same and will welcome someone suggesting a cheaper alternative.
To conclude, making the most of your money does in no way mean that you need to give up doing everything you enjoy. It starts with understanding exactly where your money is being spent and then working out what each of those purchases means to you. Far too much of our “spare” money is wasted on things we don’t get much enjoyment from. So, by spotting overlooked costs and setting a realistic budget that you can stick to, you can make more room for the things that bring you genuine enjoyment whilst still having enough money spare for your essential bills.
Of course, some weeks will be easier than others, so do not worry if you go over budget one week and then need to adjust your spending. The overall aim here is to build a habit that you can comfortably stick to by giving you more control of your spending and prioritising exactly what to spend that spare cash on.